Ruth Marlene Friesen: Welcome!
This site is like Ruthe,
the heroine of my novel,
Ruthe's Secret Roses
Ruthe is . . .
intimate with God,
prays a lot,
a bleeding heart for the hurting,
a big sister,
has creative ideas,
likes to give
loyal to friends,
dreams of love and
dreams of writing a book
goes the extra mile
So this site offers;
good books to read!
help to become Friends with Jesus,
The One Ideal Real Friend
a cure for loneliness
An Older Sister's Coping Secret
how to pray Panic Prayers,
how to grow in faith
how to share your faith
I sat on the porch overlooking a beautiful mountain lake on a summer day, enjoying a glass of wine
with my Mom. Older than me, mother of four, experienced and wise.
"Get yourself some girlfriends," she advised, swirling the wine in her glass. "You are going to
need girlfriends. Go places with them, do things with them."
What a funny piece of advice, I thought. Hadn't I just gotten married? Hadn't I just joined the
couple-world? I was a married woman, for goodness sake, not a young girl who needed girlfriends.
Nevertheless, I listened to my Mom and I got back in touch with my old girlfriends of years long
As the years tumbled by, one after another, gradually I came to understand that Mom knew what she
was talking about.
Here is what I know about them: Girlfriends bring casseroles and scrub your bathroom when you are
Girlfriends keep your children and keep your secrets.
Girlfriends give advice when you ask for it. Sometimes you take it, sometimes you don't.
Girlfriends don't always tell you that you're right, but they're usually honest.
Girlfriends still love you, even when they don't agree with your choices.
Girlfriends might send you a birthday card, but they might not. It does not matter in the least.
Girlfriends laugh with you, and you don't need canned jokes to start the laughter.
Girlfriends pull you out of jams.
Girlfriends don't keep a calendar that lets them know who hosted the other last.
Girlfriends will give a party for your son or daughter when they get married or have a baby, in
whichever order that comes!
Moreover, girlfriends are there for you, in an instant and truly, when the hard times come.
Girlfriends listen when you lose a job or a husband.
Girlfriends listen when your children break your heart.
Girlfriends listen when your parent's minds and bodies fail.
My girlfriends bless my life. Once we were young, with no idea of the incredible joys or the
incredible sorrows that lay ahead. Nor did we know how much we would need each other.
Pass this on to your girlfriends (that includes sisters) and even to women you are not quite
friends with. You never know, someday they may end up being a dear old friend. Let them know how
much you appreciate them.
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