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This site is like Ruthe,
the heroine of my novel,
Ruthe's Secret Roses
Ruthe is . . .
intimate with God,
prays a lot,
a bleeding heart for the hurting,
a big sister,
has creative ideas,
likes to give
loyal to friends,
dreams of love and
dreams of writing a book
goes the extra mile
So this site offers;
good books to read!
help to become Friends with Jesus,
The One Ideal Real Friend
a cure for loneliness
An Older Sister's Coping Secret
how to pray Panic Prayers,
how to grow in faith
how to share your faith
A Writer's Responsibility
© Ruth Marlene Friesen
Some yearn to play with words, some trip all over themselves to blurt out a stream of
consciousness, and some writers agonize over every word as if it's a tooth to give up.
But if we've come to some maturity; we'll mostly wield words like a surgeon a scalpel, fluid because
of training, and focused not on the shine and glint of the scalpel, but on the deliberate work it is
meant to do. cutting just so far and no more, to accomplish a greater goal.
What then, is a writer's responsibility in such a huge time of upheaval as we have now?
Do not stir up passion and fury, just to see people foam. Don't embellish truth to make it
titillating. Do not debate every little issue and bit of lint. You'll only add to the problem. And -
don't insist on getting paid for every word you write.
There. Now may I dwell the positives?
God's ultimate goal whether with words or done with hands and feet, is to recognize His authority
and glory. According to individual gifts distributed to His own, we may get more precise
instructions and subjective assignments.
Years ago, while trying to teach our girls club hostessing manners, my helping guide, who had
been to finishing school gave us a simple little rule to follow whenever we didn't know what to do
next in an unfamiliar situation. I've used Helen's rule many times since.
"Always do and always say the kindest thing in the kindest way."
Practice writing and saying kind things, as kindly as possible. Remember that in the written form
people can't hear your tone of voice, so you have to craft that into the idiom and choices of words.
Maybe add extras to prove it.
What would be kind responsible words to write these days?
It might be hard to come by profound comforting words for the bereaved and distraught, but just
saying the obviously kind words on paper, gives them something tangible to hold in their hands.
Something they can re-read until it registers. So write sympathy notes.
Lots of people are disheartened and fearful. As Dr. Dobson pointed out just recently, children get
very frightened and freeze inside when they see and hear adults frightened or angry - even though
they don't understand the words. So write simple and encouraging things for both adults and
children, as you have gifts and opportunities. Write in cards, or articles and stories. Share
the things that give you hope.
The internet offers boundless opportunities to get words out to people! Many websites are begging
for inspirational stories of heroes and hope.
Some have big decisions to make that could cost lives or have huge consequences for good, for evil.
Pray for them, and then write them of your prayers, or write one out for them. Point them to the
wise God who knows all and has promised not to scold those who ask for wisdom. (James 1:5) If you
have some considered and well-thought out points or suggestions, these might be appreciated, and if
written in a kind tone, probably used.
Already people are writing poems, songs, articles and editorials - the creative juices are rippling
down, carrying words like a steam mountain stream in spring brings down new rocks and pebbles.
It would be good, before we make that stream too muddy, if we'd all withdraw to a quiet place, at
least for a while each day to commune with God and see what words He wants to give us. They will be
better ones than the first bubbles from us.
Writers all, but especially you and me, who are editors, let's pause to check our connection with
the fountain of truth before we let our positions give us swelled heads. If we don't write in love
we'll be like clanging gongs and tinny cowbells, failing our responsibilities, signifying nothing.
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